La Famiglia Manno

Part Four: Anna & John

Anna Manno was born in Palermo on April 26, 1935 — the third child and the third daughter of Francesco Paolo and Elena Manno. She lived on the same street as John Mineo, who was two years her senior. When Anna immigrated to the United States in 1956 with her father and her brother Paul, she was already engaged to Mineo, who had a position with the Italian Merchant Marine.

John Mineo

Why Francesco Paolo Manno chose to take his son and his third oldest daughter to the United States in 1956 relates to an incident betwee his second oldest daughter, Concetta, and the Sicilian Mafia. The details differ, depending on which family member tells the story. John Mineo Jr. tells the most graphic tale and the one that best explains why his mother was forced to immigrate to America.

They kidnapped her (Concetta), the guy from the mafia. The son wanted to marry my aunt. And my mom found out. She pounded on the door with a shotgun. It was like a fortress, apparently, I’m not sure, but she started pounding on the door. She said, "I know you have my sister there. I want my sister back." And they said, "We’ll kill you." My mom said, "Kill me, but I’m going to take somebody out too."

She told my grandfather. She was afraid to tell my grandfather; he was a tough man. Next thing you know, he had some people help him. But in the meantime, they buried him alive. He dug his way out and blew the whole family off.

My grandfather knew he had to go. He wanted to save his son and he knew they wanted to kill my mom. So he made a deal with some of these people to bring them to this country.

Francesco Paolo Manno

Once in St. Louis, Anna lived with her father and brother in an apartment at 4250 North Broadway. While the two men labored at Nathan Tureen's barrel factory, Anna worked making bridal gowns and bridesmaid dresses at Nania's Bridal Originals on Cass Avenue.

After a year in St. Louis, Anna longed for the man she had left behind in Italy. Her brother Paul put her on a ship and she returned to Palermo to marry John Mineo.

Anna & John Mineo, Palermo, 1958

Anna returned to the United States in May of 1958 on the same ship as her mother and sisters, Serafina and Rosalia, who were immigrating to America. John Mineo would immigrate the following year, after his brother-in-law Paul Manno had filed the appropriate petition and papers.

Palermo, 1958 - Prior to Anna boarding ship to America
(L) Concetta Sanfilippo, Francesco Sanfilippo, Rosa Gabriele, Agostino Gabriele, Anna Mineo, John Mineo
Palermo, 1958 - Boarding ship to America
(L to R front on gangplank) Concetta Elena Manno, Anna Mineo
(L to R ground) John Mineo, Concetta Sanfilippo, Francesco Sanfilippo, Rosa Gabriele, Agostino Gabriele

Anna and John Mineo had three children, all born in St. Louis. John Jr. was born in 1961, Paul in 1964 and Sal in 1967.

When John Mineo joined his wife back to St. Louis, Paul Manno found them a place to stay and helped Mineo get a job at St. Mary's Hospital. Anna had gone back to work at Nania's. After Paul Manno settled in as a waiter at Tony's restaurant, he got Mineo a job there too.

John Mineo Jr. remembers how hard his parents worked.

My mom and dad worked all day. My mom sold wedding dresses. She would hide the money. She would save every penny behind the sink to have me.

My dad cleaned hospital beds. We lived on Broadway on top of a little store. He would take the bus to St. Mary’s. Then he’d go to work at Tony’s.

John Mineo left Tony's in 1967. He and Anna partnered with Agostino and Rosa Gabriele to open Agostino's on the Hill at 5201 Shaw. Mineo served as maître d’ while Agostino and Rosa worked in the kitchen.

Agostino's on the Hill
Agostino Gabriele (top left), Johnny Weissmuller, John Mineo
John Mineo Jr. (bottom center)

Although Agostino's on the Hill did well, in 1972, Gabriele and Mineo decided to sell the restaurant and go their separate ways. John Jr. remembers the car ride with his parents to Clayton and Mason roads in West St Louis County.

My little brother with Down’s Syndrome had a school there in 1972. My grandfather moved us all to Evans Lane. We used to drive Sal from Cool Valley to school every morning.

I’ll never forget that day. My dad pulls in there, he gets out of the car and he says, "I want to take a look at this restaurant." It was called the Blue Room Grill. It had eight tables, a buffet line and one bathroom.

He gets back in the car and says, "I think I found the restaurant." My mom’s looking around; my brother (Paul) and I are in the back. There was only one street, cornfields, no lights. My mom says in Italian, "Are you fucking crazy?" and hits him upside the head. I thought she gave him a concussion. I looked at my brother and said, "Pauli, thank god it wasn’t us!"

But he had a vision. My dad saw all these big houses — Williamsburg Estates. He didn’t know Harry Carey, Jack Buck, Dan Kelly and all these famous people lived there.

In April of 1973, John Mineo's Italian Restaurant opened at Clayton and Mason roads.

John Mineo's Restaurant, 13490 Clayton Road

In his July 18, 1973 St. Louis Post-Dispatch review of the new restaurant, critic Joe Pollack exclaimed that "dinner was a sparkling experience." But he was concerned with the space.

The restaurant is rather small, seating about 70 persons. It is simply decorated and softly lighted, but a full house might create somewhat of a noise problem. The waiting area is severely limited in size, being not much larger than a walk-in closet and with neither windows nor bar service, factors that would tend to make a claustrophobe doubly nervous.

Pollack's misgivings were unfounded.

John Mineo's Restaurant Staff
John Mineo (center) with Sal Mineo to his right and John Jr. to his left

In 1982, John and Anna Mineo began serving lunch in a separate space adjoining their restaurant. Dubbed Anna's, it offered a menu of sandwiches, salads and other light fare from 11 a.m to 2 p.m. In 2004 the space morphed into Anna's Bistro, serving both a light lunch and dinner. The spinoff disappeared by the end of 2005.

Early 1980s Anna's Lunch Menu
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In March of 1987, John Mineo partnered with his brother-in-law, Paul Manno, in a downtown restaurant. They opened John Mineo II & Paul's on the ground floor of the new St. Louis Centre.

As designated by the Roman numeral, it was 26-year-old John Jr. who initially ran the restaurant with Manno. The younger Mineo had been an All-American running back at Indiana University.

I just got out of college. Mr. Simon was one of the alumni; he was like Mr. Big Dog of Indiana. He built St. Louis Centre and he knew I had a restaurant. He said, how about if you move in? He built us a million dollar restaurant, probably the most beautiful restaurant in St. Louis.

John Jr. manned the kitchen while his Uncle Paul oversaw the dining room. But the partnership didn't work out. Years later, John Jr. took the blame.

As a young guy, there are other things to do. You tell me a twenty-something year old is going to sit there.

But I must say, as much as we didn’t get along, my Uncle Paul taught me a hell of a lot. My uncle made Tony’s five stars. They never got five stars again after he left.

After a year or so, Manno took over operation of the downtown restaurant with his wife, Concetta, and John Jr. returned to his father's West County restaurant.

(L to R) Paul, Sal and John Mineo Jr.

In November of 1989, the three Mineo brothers opened a restaurant at 163 Lamp & Lantern Village. Mineo's Pasta Bowl was a family-style restaurant which allowed diners to share large bowls of pasta.

We weren’t ready. Pop was by himself. My brother was getting divorced. It just fell apart.

Both John Mineo II & Paul's and Mineo's Pasta Bowl closed in 1991. While John Jr. and Sal returned to work the front of the house at their parents' restaurant on Clayton Road, the middle Mineo son set out on his own.

In May of 1992, Paul Mineo partnered with Steve Schumaier and Firmin Puricelli to open Willoughby's Bar & Grille in the Watson Village Shopping Center. Mineo served as full time chef. But in March of 1993, it was announced that lead partner Schumaier had not only parted company with Puricelli, but had evicted Mineo as well. Willoughby's closed the following year.

In April of 1993, it was rumored that Paul Mineo was opening a family-style pizza, pasta, steak restaurant called Knockouts on June 1 in the Village Square Shopping Center. However, in May of 1993, Mineo was in Tulsa, Oklahoma serving as the chef for a new Italian restaurant in the Adam's Mark Hotel. He was in the Adam's Mark kitchen for four months; he returned to his parents' kitchen on Clayton Road in September.

Anna & John Mineo

Paul Mineo wasn't back at his parents' restaurant for long. In May of 1994, he debuted a restaurant at 4501 Lindell, in the Lindell Terrace apartment building. Initially dubbed Pauli's, Paul Mineo's Italian Bistro opened to decent reviews. But by the summer of 1995, Mineo had moved on.

In July of 1995, Paul Mineo lured his brother John away from the family's Clayton Road restaurant and the two brothers opened Mineo's Primavera at 7823 Forsyth in Clayton. Susan Hegger gave the restaurant high marks in her January 4, 1996 St. Louis Post-Dispatch review.

The restaurant, the onetime Lettuce Leaf, has an understated sophistication. The walls are painted in a soothing shade of salmon; intimate, little alcoves, complete with white curtains, line two walls; a couple of faux Roman statues add points of interest.

But the piece de resistance is the ceiling, an evocation of the heavens. The center is painted a pastel blue, streaked with white wisps, while the rest of the ceiling is draped with white, gossamer-like, fabric clouds. The effect is dreamy and romantic.

I walked into Mineo's Primavera wondering if Clayton — if St. Louis — needed another Italian restaurant. When I walked out, I could answer that question with an enthusiastic yes.

Mineo's is a classy restaurant, one that will satisfy those who appreciate fanciful decor and delightful cooking.

In August of 1996, basking in the glory of their successful Clayton debut, the Mineo brothers partnered with John Rallo and Mike Miller, and opened Johnny Rollers Piano Bar & Grill at 16 North Central, around the corner from their Italian restaurant.

The '50s-style cocktail lounge offered a small menu of appetizers, soup, salad, sandwiches and gourmet pizza, plus a daily pasta dish brought in from its sister restaurant down the street. In addition to enjoying nightly piano jazz with their food and drink, customers were encouraged by Paul Mineo and his partners to smoke cigars.

We got the idea from Chicago, where there are a lot of these places. Smoking has become such a big issue. The majority of people are not smoking cigarettes. But cigar smoking is different. It's not habit-forming because you don't inhale. At Johnny Roller's, it is expected that people will smoke. A few people complain, but we have a lot of "smoke eaters" in the ceiling to take care of most of the problem.

The club-like restaurant, whose curbside looked for a few short months like a Jaguar dealer's showroom, was shuttered in February of 1997.

My brother John and I have our hands full with running Mineo's Primavera.

The Mineo brothers didn't run Mineo's Primavera for much longer. They closed it by August of 1997. John Jr. returned to the kitchen on Clayton Road to help manage the restaurant with his parents. And in November of 1997, with his friend Bill Green, Paul Mineo changed the name of the restaurant at 7823 Forsyth from Mineo's Primavera to Amici.

We changed the theme. Amici is more casual and less expensive than Mineo's Primavera. We decided we wanted to be less pricey than a lot of restaurants in Clayton, and still offer good quality.

Amici was short lived. On April 15, 1998, Jim Fiala opened another restaurant in the 7823 Forsyth space with another new name — The Crossing.

Amici, 7823 Forsyth

In 1999, Paul Mineo married Brigette Clark. Their son, Giovanni Mineo, was born in 2001. For a time, Mineo left the kitchen and tried his hand at the mortgage loan business. But in January of 2008, Paul and Brigette Mineo opened Paul Mineo's Trattoria in Westport Plaza.

Paul Mineo's Trattoria, 333 Westport Plaza

The Westport Plaza restaurant was a casual trattoria; there were no tuxedo-clad waiters or tableside preparations. Mineo's Uncle Benny — Benedetto Buzzetta, the husband of his Aunt Rosalia — helped in the kitchen.

T.J. Martin's review in the February 28, 2008 Ladue News echoed the overwhelming positive response to Paul and Brigette Mineo's new restaurant.

I, for one, always welcome a capable Italian restaurant, especially to the West County area. Paul Mineo’s offers solid favorites, some of them outstanding, and all with a pleasant, home-cooked touch. It’s hard to beat this new spot. It’s got a fresh, attractive ambiance, good prices and authentic old country recipes. 

Paul Mineo was happy at his new restaurant. His wife Brigette was the perfect partner. He often sang to his customers; his favorites were "New York, New York," "Fly Me to the Moon" and "My Way."

On July 25, 2009, Paul Mineo died of colon cancer at the age of 45.

Brigette, Paul and Giovanni Mineo

Brigette Mineo continued to run the restaurant with her husband's name for over ten years.

It was a horrible situation. I learned how to operate the restaurant from the hospital. I kept it open for him. It was a lot of fun and a lot of work, but it was very expensive to run.

Paul Mineo's Trattoria closed on March 17, 2020, a victim of the pandemic.

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John Mineo Jr. continued to manage the restaurant at Clayton and Mason roads, working side by side with his parents in the kitchen.

When my mom was here, she just had to step out there and they listened. Pop had that walk. He just looked. I’m trying to figure out what he had that he could just walk out there and they paid attention. He was a wonderful man. He was very quiet, very emotional. I didn’t deserve him.

John and Anna Mineo, 2019 John Mineo Jr., 2019

John Mineo Sr. died on November 18, 2020 at the age of 87. Anna Manno Mineo died on July 26, 2022 at the age of 87. John Mineo's Italian Restaurant celebrated its 50th birthday in April of 2023.

John & Anna Mineo

La Famiglia Manno Part Five: Serafina & Giovanni

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