Salad Bowl

Elmer Roy Sewing was born on September 5, 1908 in Friedheim, Missouri, about 30 miles northwest of Cape Girardeau. He lived with his family on his father's farm until just prior to his twenty-first birthday, when the August 1, 1929 Perry County Republican reported that, "Elmer Sewing went to St. Louis to look for a job."

By April of 1930, Sewing was living as a roomer at 1546 Mississippi Avenue in St. Louis and working as a hotel elevator operator. Not long thereafter, he moved on from elevator operator to dishwasher at the Miss Hulling's cafeteria at Eleventh and Locust.
 

Elmer Sewing at Miss Hullings

Anna Lillian Poluski was born on April 3, 1910 in Livingston, Illinois. By April of 1930, she was living in St. Louis and working as a counter girl at the Miss Hulling's cafeteria at Eleventh and Locust ― where she met and fell in love with Elmer Sewing.

Miss Hulling's had a company policy against coworkers marrying. So in 1934, Elmer Sewing and Anna Poluski eloped. They would go on to have four children ― Donna was born in 1937, the twins, Norman and Norbert, in 1940, and David in 1945.
 

Donna Sewing, 1955 Norman Sewing, 1959
Norbert Sewing, 1959 David Sewing, 1963

While working at Miss Hulling's, Elmer Sewing learned the restaurant business from the bottom up. Norbert Sewing chronicled his father's rise in the Hulling organization.

He actually ran part of the business for them. He was the manager of the stores. He started off basically as a dishwasher – a man who worked the kitchens. From there to the cooking, to the cheffing, to the management.

And then, in '48, he decided he needed to go on his own to help pay his bills, and that's when he started to be an entrepreneur.

In early 1948, Sewing enlisted Agnes Lemanski, a frequent customer at Miss Hulling's, to back him in opening a small restaurant at 4203 Lindell, at the corner of Whittier. He called his restaurant the Salad Bowl.

The 1,400 square foot establishment seated a maximum of 30 patrons at 4 tables and 10 counter stools. It was so small, when the pantry door opened, it hit the dishwasher. The Salad Bowl was open Monday through Saturday, from 6 a.m. to 5 p.m.

Anna Sewing's brother, John Poluski, was the first chef. Fondly referred to as Uncle Johnny, he had also worked at Miss Hulling's. His home-style cooking served as the basis for the Salad Bowl's recipes until the day it closed.

The Salad Bowl's baked goods were prepared by "Grandma Pauline," another former Miss Hulling's employee. She baked square cakes and pies in her home. As the Sewing boys grew older, it became their job to pick up the fresh baked goods and deliver them to their father's restaurant.

As the business flourished, it became evident the restaurant needed to expand. The April 1, 1951 St. Louis Post-Dispatch reported that Elmer Sewing and Agnes Lemanski had leased a one-story brick building at 4057 Lindell, just east of Sarah. By 1952, Sewing had opened the Salad Bowl Cafeteria in the space.
 

Salad Bowl Cafeteria, 4057 Lindell, 1953

The new location encompassed 13,000 square feet, with seating for 176 diners. Evening hours were extended until 7:30 p.m.

On Sundays, the Sewing boys ― first Norman and Norbert, and later David ― would help their father at the restaurant with whatever was needed. They would sweep and mop the floor, wash dishes left over from the day before, wipe down counter tops, peel potatoes or whatever else their dad asked them to do.

The Salad Bowl developed a reputation for consistently good, home-cooked meals, served in a friendly, family oriented environment. However, the restaurant was at a disadvantage as there were only five parking spots. The Sewings needed a new location with more parking spaces for their customers.
 

Salad Bowl Cafeteria, 4057 Lindell, 1950s

What better place to find parking spots than an automobile dealership. In 1962, Elmer Sewing leased the vacant Lindell Motor Company, a DeSoto-Plymouth dealership at 3949 Lindell, and renovated it for his third restaurant.

The new Salad Bowl Cafeteria had 33,000 square feet of floor space. A garage at the west side of the building provided 16,000 square feet of covered parking.

Inside, the walls had been refinished with a vinyl simulating the beige and white of old brick. Arches at intervals were decorated with hanging baskets of ferns. A vinyl mural presented an array of fruits and vegetables.

One dining room was called the Colonial. Adjoining the Colonial Room was a cocktail lounge. Another dining room, in yellow, was called the Garden Room, equipped with garden-style furniture. A retail bakery in the Garden Room featured pastries baked fresh daily for home use. The two dining rooms provided seating for 200 customers.

Banquet rooms were more formal. The main one could be divided into three when required by folding red doors. Red carpeting, antique brass chandeliers and furnishings created a festive atmosphere. The room was soundproofed so public address systems could be used. It accommodated from 25 to 275 people for luncheon and dinner meetings, conferences, receptions and private parties.
 

St. Louis Post-Dispatch, August 26, 1962
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When the Salad Bowl moved to its new location, the Sewing twins were just finishing college. Norman had plans to be a dentist and Norbert was planning a career in the Army. But their father convinced them his expanded restaurant could not succeed without their help. So after a stint in the military, the twins joined their father in running the business, as did David after he graduated college.
 

Elmer Sewing, 1963

The Salad Bowl's cafeteria line was a long one, but it was heavily staffed and moved quickly. The menu focused on standard cafeteria comfort food. There were a dozen or more entrees to choose from, plus a dozen vegetables, two dozen desserts and all sorts of salads.

On a typical day, entrees included liver and onions, prime rib, cube steak, top round of beef, chicken chop suey, sauerbraten, chopped beef steak with mushroom gravy, barbecued pork steaks with Elmer's barbecue sauce, salmon patties, stuffed whitefish, scallops, fried catfish, sole and shrimp.

Two soups were available each day. Vegetables and sides included baked beans, macaroni and cheese, kidney bean salad, German potato salad, fried eggplant, candied sweet potatoes and potato pancakes.

Initially, none of the Salad Bowl's recipes were written down; they were all in Uncle Johnny's head. When David Sewing began working at the cafeteria, he decided to document the recipes.

Over five years, David arrived at the Salad Bowl each morning at 4:30 to shadow Uncle Johnny. Each "pinch" or "handful" of an ingredient was put in a bowl and measured before Johnny was allowed to throw it into the cooking pot. Eventually, each recipe was dutifully recorded.
 

Salad Bowl Cafeteria Line

In 1968, the Sewings opened a lounge in a converted store room off the parking garage. They called it "Bits 'n Saddles." It was decorated as a comfortable living room, with leather couches, wingback chairs and a crackling fireplace. Liquor was served to lure customers in after work for a "happy hour" or for dinner. Bits 'n Saddles remained open for 10 years.
 

Elmer Sewing often said he was opposed to segregation. But early on, like many restaurant owners, he turned black diners away from his cafeteria, fearing that white customers would not accept them.

The following appeared on November 12, 1960 in the "Letters from the People" section of the St. Louis Post-Dispatch.

I attended a training course for individuals who will be doing volunteer service in St. Louis hospitals and other agencies. In the group there are a number of Negroes. Last Tuesday, we met near the Salad Bowl Cafeteria, 4057 Lindell.

Several of the Negro women had not brought a sandwich and went over to the Salad Bowl to pick up one for lunch and were refused service. They were not even asking to be served or seated in the cafeteria, but were only asking to be sold a sandwich which they would take out. Because it was election day, they were not able to buy sandwich materials at the nearby supermarket. As a result, these women had no lunch.

These citizens have a sincere desire to help others and yet because of the color of their skin, some are not permitted to even purchase a sandwich for lunch and must go hungry.

When the Civil Rights Act was passed in 1964 making it illegal to refuse service to patrons based on race, the Salad Bowl was one of the first restaurants in St. Louis to integrate. According to Norman Sewing, this was more in line with his parents' values.

That was a point that our father and our mother taught us ― that we should always have it open for everybody. And we always have. That’s important to us. When we were kids and ate at the table, everybody ate at our table. It was important that we realize that there are other people in this world, and we have to get along.

Anna and Elmer Sewing
Salad Bowl 25th Anniversary Party, 1973
 
Norbert, Norman and David Sewing
Salad Bowl 25th Anniversary Party, 1973

On June 6, 1976, Elmer Sewing died suddenly of a heart attack at the age of 67.

Elmer Sewing had kept the "inner secrets" of the business to himself. He was the one who had talked to the lawyers and the accountants. Anna and the boys were left to run the Salad Bowl without him.

They started by hiring more employees. At one point, a staff of 100 worked at the cafeteria. Over the years, an effort was made to hire employees with hearing impairment and other disabilities.

In 1977, the Sewings purchased the building they had been leasing. In 1980, they began buying adjacent property in order to construct a rear parking lot.

Knowing they had to expand the business, the Sewing brothers encouraged greater use of their banquet rooms. To draw customers, they made the rooms available for free to various groups if attendees went through the cafeteria line.

Churches, businesses and community organizations used the Salad Bowl's banquet rooms. It was a melting pot of all ages, races and religions.

The cafeteria was located halfway between St. Louis University and Washington University, and their associated hospitals. The banquet rooms became popular sites for talks and lecture series.
 

Salad Bowl Banquet Room

If a politician wanted to reach a grassroots audience in St. Louis, the Salad Bowl was on the short list of venues. Both Kit Bond Republicans and Thomas Eagleton Democrats spoke to constituents at the restaurant. Jesse Jackson addressed a group in 1991 and made a lasting impression on the Salad Bowl staff.
 

Jesse Jackson with Salad Bowl Staff, 1991

Anna Sewing worked with her sons at the Salad Bowl until she retired in 1992. She died on October 8, 1996 at the age of 86.

The Salad Bowl was an integral part of the extended Sewing family's life. Norman's wife Susan, Norbert's wife Doris, and David's wife Julie all had vivid memories of raising their families with the cafeteria as a backdrop. Norman Sewing's son Stephen captured these memories in his book, Recipes of Life: Stories from the Salad Bowl Cafeteria.

Upon returning home to St. Louis in 1965, Elmer Sewing opened the "new" Salad Bowl. Norm went to work for him. Having only one car, Friday was my day to have the car to do errands and then take our pre-schoolers to see their Grandpa and Grandma Sewing at the restaurant. Afterwards, usually, we would go to their house, have popcorn and visit. I have always been very proud of the Salad Bowl family business.

Grandpa let me check coats for parties, providing I would give my tips to the children! As time went by, I met many customers and knew some of the employees. Dorothy Kaiser taught me how to "serve salads" on the line using "portion control." I felt a part of the Salad Bowl.

Susan Sewing

Norman & Susan Sewing, 2019

I remember back in the 1960s, the Salad Bowl was a meeting place for many on their way from downtown offices to home. The food was great! And the patrons and the owners, Elmer and Anna Sewing, knew one another because there were so many customers who ate with Elmer and Anna several nights a week. Often the line stretched out the front door onto the sidewalk and onto Lindell Boulevard. While waiting in line many times, I struck up conversations with those around me. The atmosphere was always friendly.

It is through the interactions of all these interesting patrons that formed the character of the Sewings. I understand why they all loved their work so much. It wasn't just a job, but a service they all looked forward to doing. I am thankful to all the customers and staff that helped give my family the values they have. My children loved working with everyone there as they grew up and were called in to lend a hand. Each enthusiastically embraced their time at "the Bowl" as they fondly referred to the restaurant. The Sewings' journey was truly a labor of love.

Doris Sewing

Norbert & Doris Sewing, 2013

One of the saddest and most difficult memories was when Elmer died. It was sudden and unexpected and truly left the family in a state of shock. He was the backbone of the business. The restaurant was his dream that he and Anna turned into a reality. He, amazingly enough, was able to pull his three sons into the business with him. Not only did David, Norbert and Norman lose their father, but they also lost their boss and their friend. What one should remember about Elmer is as successful as he and the Salad Bowl were, he never forgot those who had helped him along the way.

Miss Anna, Donna and "the boys" decided to hold Elmer's wake in a funeral home a block away from the restaurant, keeping the restaurant open while they held a two day wake. People came into eat and then went to pay their respects. On the day of the funeral, there was standing room only at the church. The number of cars in the funeral procession was so large that you could not see the end and it stretched through three communities.

The shock to Miss Anna was incredible. This is when I learned how important the restaurant was in all of our lives. Were it not for the Salad Bowl, I do not think that Anna would have recovered from the loss of her husband and helpmate. She picked herself up by the boot straps and returned to work, where she received the support from her sons and the Salad Bowl community.

Julie Sewing

David & Julie Sewing, 2015

In the summer of 2005, the Sewing brothers received an offer from a Dallas developer to buy their building at 3949 Lindell to make way for an apartment building. Norbert Sewing explained why the offer was accepted.

The restaurant industry is changing; our customers are changing. We have to look at what's best for us.

December 23, 2005 was closing day for the Salad Bowl. The Sewing family had been dishing out home-style cafeteria food at three locations on Lindell Boulevard for almost 58 years. According to Norbert Sewing, the Salad Bowl was more than a business.

We were here to be a part of the community ― not just doing the business. We liked people and people, we hope, liked us. And that’s what helped us to be as successful as we have.


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